I am going to do a few posts
highlighting different
conversations I have had with pro-
choicers that deal with specific
objections to abortion. My intent is two-fold. First I want to show how the logic is revealed through actual
conversation, and second I want to show how a kind word can turn away wrath.
I am frustrated with many in my camp who want to do good by making a pro-life change in this world, but their method is bent on ridicule and insult. I have never seen this as an effective method for changing hearts and minds.
In this
conversation I want to show how a respectful tone can do much to set your
opponent at ease. This by itself wont change their mind, but it is essential if the logic and facts are expected to do their job to make sure you don't close their ears.
I have included the comments of some of my
comrades in arms. Some are beneficial comments, some are detrimental to the
conversation. In the end I am glad to say that the point was won on my opposing friend's heart. He is still pro-choice but he is more open now than before to talk things through with me. The
conversation may appear disjointed at times, that is just the nature of these message boards.
DBDin all the time i have been posting on this channel, (and others) not one person has been able to show me
conclusively that an embryo is a human being. not once! you would have thought that if there was something other than a leap of faith involved, someone would have shown me the evidence?
shardoinDBD - not one person has been able to show me
conclusively that an embryo is a human
being. Admittedly, I am shocked that this would even be in question. Have you ever heard of a woman giving birth to anything other than human?
DBDwhat has that to do with anything? a fertilised egg might become a human being.
IGNATDBD,In its 1859 Report on Criminal Abortion, the American Medical Association (AMA) understood that 'the independent and actual existence of the child before birth as a living being' was a scientific truth. Nothing has changed since that time. For the past 150 years doctors have known that life begins at conception.
UVVAct of 2004 defines an UNBORN CHILD as a human being at any stage of development (ZYGOTE, EMBRYO, FETUS) who is carried in the womb of the mother.
DBDI could go and check on your 60 year old report, but every time i do, i find that you have twisted or
cherrypicked the facts, (like in the
uvv 2004 case below) and that what you say is
irrelevent. cutting and pasting BITS of documents and hoping that no-one take the time to check them is not a good debating strategy. and
incidentally if what some people said 60 years ago was proof of anything, why did no-one act on it yet?
shardoinDBD - why has no one acted on it? You are asking the wrong question, that's why. The abortion debate doesn't bring into question the humanity of the fetus; it is about the right to live for the unborn human being. It is a civil rights fight, not a semantics fight.
DBDno i am asking the question I want an answer to, not the one you want answer, if
theres a difference that
doesnt mean I got the question wrong.
shardoinThat’s fine; we can take the long route. The reason no one has acted on what was said 60 years ago is that it doesn't have any bearing on the debate. No one is saying that the fetus is not a human being.
DBDI am
shardoinDBD - I am. If that is the case then the onus is on you to present evidence to support your position. It is a position that is contrary to science, semantics, and the medical community. I look forward to seeing your arguments though.
DBDThe onus is not on me because abortion is a legal activity, and i am not trying to chance that or stop anyone
excercing their legal right, the onus is on you.
shardoinDBD - the onus is not on me ...I can see you are having trouble following this. You made a statement that you have the onus to support. If I had said that abortion was not legal I would have the onus to present evidence. The position you took is that a fetus is not a human being. The onus is on you to support that position.
DBDBuy a dictionary mine says "any man woman or child of the species homo-
sapiens, no mention of fetus's
shardoinPERSON
Noun
1. human being - any living or extinct member of the family
Hominidae.
The fetus is a member of the family
hominidae.
DBDits not living or a member.
shardoinIf you are saying the fetus is not alive then I look forward to seeing your supporting evidence.
DBDI told you I don’t NEED to support it, you NEED to prove me wrong. I look forward to that.
DBDunfortunately i have to go out, see if you change the law before i come back.
shardoinDBD - you NEED to prove me wrong...Clearly you don’t understand the rules of debate. When you posit an opinion, especially one that is a contrary opinion, the onus is put on you to support your opinion. Otherwise it becomes discarded as merely opinion.
DBDthats what YOU say.
shardoinDBD - Are you seriously insisting that I supply evidence that the fetus is alive? Would you like supporting evidence for gravity as well?
MerlDBDPro-lifers do not
particularly careabout what pro-aborts consider "good debating strategy".Because you and you kind would rather see pro-lifers as a collection of submissive
weeners. That's one dream that ain't going to happen.Ever.
DBD"pro-lifer"
dont seem to care about what a lot of people consider
shardoinWhat do a lot of people consider?
DBDa lot of people consider abortion to be
okshardoinThe fact that a lot of people consider it
ok is not an argument for anything. Mob rule does not always mean right rule. The latest polls show that the majority are pro-life, but again that really means nothing. A lot of people considered slavery to be
ok once too.
DBDno they
dont
shardoinI
dont know what you are disagreeing with unless you specify
DBDthe majority of
americans 75% said in that* poll, that they agreed with abortion, some under certain unstated conditions , (me too), 51% plus or minus 3% the majority you are talking about said they felt more pro life than pro choice when face
witha false dichotomy.
gallup spokesmenn said they thought the
hickup was a
kneejerk reaction to
obamas recent abortion policy.
shardoinwhat false dichotomy?
DBDare you pro choice or pro
lfe.
MerlDBD - and a lot of people don't consider abortion to be
ok.
DBD"and a lot of people
dont consider abortion to be
ok", and i respect their right to not have one.
MerlDBD - No person has the right to take the life of a helpless unborn babe.
DBDactually undead
abortionists do. go and have a look at the facts.
MerlDBD"..undead
abortionists.."?You also referred to people (including yourself) as being "undead corpses" last night.Your outlook on life is truly bizarre - it explains a great deal about your pro-abort stance.
shardoinThe property or quality that
distinguishes living organisms from dead organisms and inanimate matter, manifested in functions such as metabolism, growth,
reproduction, and response to stimuli or adaptation to the environment originating from within the organism.
DBDbut that could all be as a result of the
conection by umbilical cord to the mother. once these functions can be performed
independenty of the mother, (for a n extended period) then a fetus can be said to be alive.
shardoinNone of the functions of life happen because of the cord. From the moment of conception, the
conceptus begins to reproduce
thru mitoses, it metabolizes, it responds to its environment. Even the placenta is grown by the fetus, not the mother.
DBDyou can apply all of this logic to a vaginal wart.
shardoinReally? Does a vaginal wart have its own DNA? Seriously are you here for real debate or just to troll?
DBDwhy is
dna at all relevant?
shardoinWhy is DNA relevant?Because DNA is one huge way in which we can determine autonomy.
MerlDBD - Human Beings as unto a wart! Your slip is showing.
shardoinIndependence is also not a criterion for life. A newborn has no
independence. It cannot survive on its own. A
conceptus exhibits every trait of life prior to attaching itself tothe uterine wall, independent of the mother.
DBD"
independence is not a criteria for life", who says so?
shardoinWho says so? Biologists who define what constitutes biological life.
DBDbiologists say that
dna is
relevent in defining what constitutes a human being?
shardoinYes biologists do say that DNA is relevant for defining not only a human being but any other animal.
MerlDBD - Re: "once these functions can be performed
independenty of the mother, (for an extended period) then a fetus can be said to be alive.'Who do you think you are - the author of life? You, who doesn't even understand the cause of the force which holds him to the ground.Life begins at the moment of conception. Fact.
DBDfacts are provable, and please tell me what is the cause of the force that holds me to the floor?
shardoinWhat is the cause of the force that holds me to the floor? Giant magnets
MerlDBD For a person who believes that he knows when life begins - he has to ask Merl as to what the cause of the force is that holds him to the ground? What a joke.
DBDyou accused me of being ignorant because I
didnt know something and you cant show that you know it? that is a joke
MerlDBD.Don't try to reverse the argument - a typical pro-abort tactic.You claim to know when life begins - therefore, you tell us here tonight, what the cause of gravity is.There's no scientist on earth who knows the answer to that question.Perhaps you do - seeing as you claim that life begins at some moment other than at conception.
DBDshardoin, can we then state
categorically that if something were to have its own individual human
dna that it is a human being?
shardoinYou are putting the cart before the horse. Genetic tests identify the being already present before you. It can define that being as being human, or the DNA can identify the type of animal that the item came from as in a hair which would be a byproduct of that being.
DBDso
dna shows only that it is a part of something that is/was alive?
shardoinDNA identifies the owner of the item in question. Be it an arm, a hair, an entire body. DNA doesshow that whatever is being tested was once alive though, you are correct on that. DNA requires life to exist.
Meta"[DNA] shows only that it is a part of something that is/was alive?"DNA shows a great deal more than that. It shows which particular species it is, among other things. FBI DNA evidence has been being used to prove cases in court for decades.The DNA of an organism determines what species that organism is.
DBDso what we have ascertained thus far unless I am mistaken, (which is not impossible) is that a fertilized egg, has its own human DNA, which shows
indisputably that it is or was at some point alive? is that right so far
shardoinSo far we seem to be on the same page ...continue please.
DBD" continue please" I got nothing, I 'm trying to remember why it was
relevent?
shardoinlol, that's fine. We can pick it up later if you want to take a break.
DBDthanks but what i mean is that you now now convinced of the facts that I
oulined, and i have nothing more to add to or question on that subject. I cant remember (or never knew) why the matter would be of any
signifigance.
shardoinI'm not sure why it is significant either; you started the line of questioning.
DBD"you started the line of questioning" so where were you before you were so rudely
interupted?
Lorra41" To accept the fact that after
fertilization has taken place a new human being has come into being is no longer a matter of taste or opinion...it is plain
experimental evidence".The "Father of Modern Genetics" Jerome
Lejeune....Univ. of
Descarte, Paris.
Lorra41Everyones life begins at
fertilization. This is an irrefutable fact of biology. No matter how far along in the pregnancy, abortion always ends the life of an individual human being.
shardoinThe criterion for biological life has been established. It is not opinion; it is a consensus of scientific study. The
conceptus fulfills every criterion for biological life.
DBDbiological life does not mean a human being though right?
shardoinBiological life only means human biological life if it is
biologically human.
DBDbiological human life does not mean a biological human being though right?
shardoinBiologically speaking...yes
DBDyes it does not?
shardoinlol yes it does mean a biological human being.
Biologically it can'tbe anything else.
DBDso to recap again, shortly after conception, a fertilised egg contains its own human
dna and is
biologically a human being? is that right?
shardoinnot shortly after conception, but AT conception. Otherwise we are in agreement.
Meta"a [fertilized] egg, has its own human [DNA], which shows
indisputably that it is or was at some point alive? is that right so far"Never thought of it that way, but I have no
disagreement with that statement. The DNA is used to determine species and
individuality. Life is determined by the
characteristics of the organism, those
characteristics being, cellular division (growth), metabolism, autonomous movement and reaction to stimuli.
DBDand is an independent life.
shardoinDependency is too loosely defined; I would say an individual life.
DBDindividual will do for me.
shardoinok :)
DBD1 more question (which I
dont expect you to be
ble to answer) why, after commenting on this
vid for months and repeatedly asking, is this the first time anyone has told me all this?
shardoinur right, I can’t say why that is but I hope I was helpful to you.
DBD" but I hope I was helpful to you" not really, because now i will have to endure pro.lie
merl and
ignatious costantly ranting that human life begins at conception, because technically speaking they are right, but thanks for trying.
shardoinWell you could always join us :)
DBDthanks for the invite but i
dont like the company you keep.
shardoinThere are all kinds in both camps. Life at conception is just the beginning. There are plenty of arguments to work thru from that starting point. I don’t hang my hat on that argument alone. Hopefully we will be able to hash thru these together again.
ignatiusDBD,You still deny the basic scientific facts.Your opinion does not change the scientific facts -- You lie and you lie nothing more nothing less.Embryology, Fetology, Obstetrics, and Biology have clearly confirmed that human life begins at conception. And that zygotes, embryos, and fetuses are unborn children who are human beings, carried inthe womb of the mother (UVoVAct of 2004; 1981 Senate Report, S-158 of 97th Congress).
DBD"you still deny the basic scientific facts" really? oh and as you know the uvv act 2004 specifically excludes abortion
shardoinThe exclusion of abortion is a political act. It doesn’t mean that they thought these were human beings, UNLESS the mother wanted to kill them. They were being political cowards.
DBD“they were being political cowards" maybe, they still excluded abortion, and it is unreasonable to select some information and and ignore other pieces of information from the same document because you say it is unreliable.
shardoinWhat information was being ignored? They did not deny the humanity of the fetus when they gave exclusion for abortion.
DBD"they did not deny the humanity of the fetus" and neither did I, (after you explained it to me), the fact being ignored is the fact that that documents states that that protection is not extended to abortion.
shardoinI agree to the limits of that document in protecting the unborn, but I believe He used that document to show that the fetus was officially classified as a human being legally. There are certainly plenty of inconsistencies in the law when it comes to protecting the unborn.
DBDhey i wouldnt wanna be the next person to ask me "which came first the chicken or the egg?"
shardoinlol
*next day*
kirsDERBULL: You said in you post"Life begins at conception, technicaly THEY ARE RIGHT ! "Thankyou for that :D
DBDdont thank me thank sardoin (sp?)
kirsUmmmmmm page 9 der it was definatly you my dear,pop your specks on and go look,,but hey its a good day ,der has admitted something he has been denying to be true,,well done der,,see it didnt hurt did it ! XD
DBDha ha!, why you have to be rude? typical. what I meant was, dont give me the credit for saying that, thank sardoin(sp?) he explained it to me.
DBDsHardoin
This topic is certainly a hot topic and it takes a great deal of patience to keep from attacking your opponant, rather than their facts or logic. I slip often enough but I am also easy to acknowledge it if I am called out or if I recognize it myself. When you engage someone on this topic remember why you are talking to them about it. What is your ultimate goal? Are you there to just cast stones or do you care to change their heart and perhaps change enough hearts to save 50 million babies a year?
Abortion is the leading cause of death for the unborn. We cant afford to be the reason for losing this fight. Present the facts, present your sound reasoning and then just get out of the way.